Your charts suggest that this is an interesting, even cosmic, moment in your relationships. Yet the same astrology is also cautioning that you may feel like everyone but you is getting what they need. There's an illustration of you in the role of healer, facilitator, or the one who holds space for others. You may feel like you're the last stop before people find the thing they're looking for; you may feel like you're the one safe place where others open up, but then somehow you get overlooked as the one to make contact with. Usually when I see this kind of astrology, it's clear that someone is playing what you might call a karmic role, something they're accustomed to and are good at. But the planet involved, Vesta, often leaves people yearning for personal experience that they can imbibe for their own pleasure. I suggest you take the step and cross that threshold yourself. Make choices that bring you closer to getting what you want. When you find yourself with the option to offer yourself in service to someone, carefully consider whether you want to offer yourself. It's a different role than the person with the human need for play and creature comforts, and at this stage in your life, either option really is a matter of choice.