There is astonishing strength that comes from devoting your life to service. I don't mean servitude, codependency, or subjugation. I mean devotion to something in yourself that connects to the world around you in a profound way. It's helpful to get the order of things correct: Devotion is an inner phenomenon, not a commitment to something outside you. But the inner aspect is not a "this is for me" thing. It's not really about you, it's about something you contain for the purpose of expressing. There's a useful image from across the wheel in Aquarius, where your counterpart there has an urn of water that she fills up for the purpose of giving away. You can think of yourself as being the guardian of the sacred hearth. You tend this hearth because it's the thing to do, then it provides heat, light and energy for everyone around you. I suggest you get used to the idea that this is a 24-7/365 kind of commitment, though that mostly pertains to the inner relationship involved. Then, you offer your time and energy when called upon and when appropriate. The planet involved is Vesta, and there's always some element of "doing without" where this goddess is concerned. I would look at that as an exchange. If you get rid of everything that is trivial, gossipy, and designed for appearances only, you will have abundant time and energy.