You may be facing a persistent question about the role of sex in your relationships. Cultural mythology on this subject would make any anthropologist's head spin. We could at least begin by saying that sex plays an important role even in nonsexual relationships, for countless reasons, but at least on that you can relate to: People are curious about one another. And there are lots of people who turn you on. But there are no provisions for that in The Rules, and denial is no longer going to work for you. The thing to remember all the time is that you are a biological entity first, and a socially-conditioned entity second. So let your biology and your curiosity speak. Notice who is noticing you—these days, plenty of people are, and maybe experiment with that being okay. You don't need to make excuses for why you supposedly don't care, especially if you actually do care. There is a zone in life and in your chart where healing and sex meet and blend, and for several different reasons, that zone is under focus right now. Any emotional, psychological, or spiritual question deserves a thoughtful review of how your sexual feelings, experiences and values influence that matter. This of course all points directly to your relationships with others, and the question of how real you can be, which is another way of saying how honest.
