Aries | Aries | Hudson Valley | Hudson Valley; Chronogram
Pin It
Favorite

Aries 

(March 20-April 19)

click to enlarge aries.jpg

Give partners and loved ones extra time and wiggle room to hesitate. Give them extra space to be self-centered. While you're at it, give yourself that space as well; once you figure out you need these things, you'll be more understanding of why others do as well. Over the next few weeks, you will gain a better understanding of where both you and partners are coming from. Remember that a partner or loved one's lack of confidence may be associated with a memory that long predates your association. People will often allow their own past impressions to influence or even dictate what happens in a present-time situation. Ideally we would not do this, however, it's more likely that the first step is learning to notice when it's happening. This is the theme of the year for you—to know and understand the nature of projection, perhaps the most common psychological phenomenon. Projection is when you see something about yourself existing exclusively outside of yourself. As a clever writer recently pointed out, projection can only happen in the dark. So the first step is to gradually turn up the lights so you can see what is happening. The second step is to keep asking yourself what belongs to you and what belongs to someone else, and not being satisfied with an answer till you have several points of documentation.

Speaking of...

Pin It
Favorite

Comments

Subscribe to this thread:

Add a comment

Readers also liked…

Hudson Valley Events

submit event

Unwind with Melia

Tue., Nov. 21, 7-8:45 p.m. — In this workshop we will "roll" stiff or tired muscles in patterned...

Free Morning Mediation

Mondays-Wednesdays, 8:45-9:15 a.m. Continues through Dec. 27

View all of today's events

Latest in Aries

  • Aries Horoscope for November 2017
  • Aries Horoscope for November 2017

    Know what you have to offer. You will feel relevant in your relationships based on what you give; not what you take, or ask for, or expect.
    • Nov 1, 2017
  • Aries Horoscope | October 2017
  • Aries Horoscope | October 2017

    This month someone, something, or the world itself, will meet you on your own level and reflect back what you’ve attained or become.
    • Oct 1, 2017
  • Aries for September 2017
  • Aries for September 2017

    The question of your relationships is about devotion. Hold space for the people in your life to grow, change, and evolve. Hold space for reality to enter.
    • Sep 1, 2017
  • More »

More by Eric Francis Coppolino

  • Cancer Horoscope for November 2017

    The charts for Cancer have not been this good in a long time.
    • Nov 1, 2017
  • Leo Horoscope for November 2017

    You need to get to the point where you are your own authority, and consciously boot the vestiges of your parents and various other control freaks out of the way.
    • Nov 1, 2017
  • Scorpio Horoscope for November 2017

    You're likely to be feeling more optimistic; not just about life but about who you are. That's most of what you need to go on in life.
    • Nov 1, 2017
  • More »

Hudson Valley Tweets