Reading: "It's Not You" by Sara Eckel

If you’re single and searching, there’s no end to other people’s explanations, excuses, and criticism explaining why you haven’t found a partner--from “You’re too picky" to “You’re too desperate." Based on her popular Modern Love column in The New York TImes, Sara Eckel’s It’s Not You challenges these myths, encouraging singletons to stop picking apart their personalities and to start tapping into their own wisdom about who and what is right for them.